May Birth Flower: Lily of the Valley Meaning, Tattoos & Gift Ideas

October 15, 2026

Gold May birth flower heart necklace with lily of the valley engraving on 316L stainless steel

May's birth flowers are lily of the valley and hawthorn. Lily of the valley is the primary May birth flower, while hawthorn is the secondary flower. According to The Old Farmer's Almanac, May's birth flowers carry traditional meanings of happiness, sweetness, and hope. Their delicate blossoms offer inspiration for birthday gifts, meaningful tattoos, and botanical keepsakes.

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May birth flower at a glance

Flower(s)	Lily of the valley is the primary May birth flower; hawthorn is the secondary May birth flower.
Meaning	Happiness, sweetness, and hope.
Popular colors	Lily of the valley usually has white, bell-shaped flowers, although pale pink cultivars exist. Hawthorn commonly blooms in white or pink, with some ornamental varieties producing deeper pink or reddish flowers.
Season	Spring, often around May in temperate Northern Hemisphere climates. Exact flowering times depend on region, weather, and variety.
May zodiac signs	Taurus until May 20; Gemini from May 21.
Birthstone	Emerald.
Gift idea	A lily of the valley birth flower necklace, a botanical illustration, a hawthorn-inspired card, or a framed drawing of May's flowers.

What does lily of the valley mean?

Lily of the valley traditionally symbolizes happiness, sweetness, purity, and the return of joyful days. Its small white bells appear along gently arching stems, giving the flower a quiet, graceful appearance that suits its associations with tenderness and affection.

In the language of flowers, lily of the valley has often been connected with the idea of happiness returning. This makes it a thoughtful symbol for someone beginning a new chapter, celebrating a milestone, or simply deserving a reminder of how much happiness they bring into another person's life.

Its association with sweetness comes partly from its delicate appearance and recognizable fragrance. The flower looks understated rather than dramatic, making its symbolism especially fitting for a person whose warmth shows through everyday kindness.

White lily of the valley flowers have also been associated with innocence and humility in some European and religious traditions. These interpretations developed across different periods and communities, so they are cultural associations rather than universal meanings.

For a May birthday, lily of the valley can represent the happiness someone brings into a family, friendship, or relationship. A daughter might choose it for her mother, a grandmother might wear it to represent a May-born grandchild, or a partner might select it as a reminder of a shared beginning.

The message can be simple: you bring happiness into my life. That personal interpretation often matters more than finding one definitive historical meaning.

Lily of the valley colors and their meanings

Unlike flowers available in a wide spectrum of shades, lily of the valley is most closely associated with white blossoms. Its recognizable form comes from the small, nodding bells arranged along one side of a slender flowering stem.

Color symbolism can inspire a May birth flower drawing, bouquet, or birthday card, but these interpretations are traditional or personal rather than fixed botanical meanings.

White lily of the valley: commonly associated with purity, tenderness, humility, and happiness. The classic choice for a traditional May birth flower design.
Pale pink lily of the valley: certain cultivated varieties can produce light pink flowers. Pink may suggest affection, gentleness, and gratitude in a modern gift interpretation.
Green leaves and stems: although not a flower color, the plant's broad green foliage can reinforce themes of renewal, spring growth, and hope in botanical artwork.
White and green botanical designs: a limited palette emphasizes the flower's distinctive bell shapes and works particularly well in minimalist illustrations.

For a May birthday card or tattoo reference, a traditional white lily of the valley stem is immediately recognizable. A black fine-line drawing can preserve the same distinctive silhouette without needing color.

If you prefer a more colorful May flower, hawthorn blossoms provide another option. White and pink hawthorn flowers can bring a different mood to a birthday illustration or family birth flower arrangement.

The second May birth flower: Hawthorn

Hawthorn is May's secondary birth flower. Rather than growing as a small woodland perennial like lily of the valley, hawthorn belongs to a group of flowering shrubs and trees in the genus Crataegus.

Many hawthorns produce clusters of small white or pink blossoms during spring. Their branches may also bear thorns, and many varieties develop small fruits later in the year. The exact appearance varies by species and cultivar.

In traditional flower symbolism, hawthorn has been associated with hope, protection, love, and the renewal of spring. Its seasonal blossoms helped connect it with May celebrations in parts of Europe.

Historical references sometimes call hawthorn Mary's Flower of May, reflecting its place in certain Christian and European cultural traditions. Other folklore connects flowering hawthorn branches with seasonal festivities and the arrival of warmer weather.

These associations are part of cultural history, not evidence that the plant itself provides protection or changes someone's fortune.

Hawthorn is especially appealing as a birth flower motif for someone who loves trees, gardens, woodland landscapes, or a slightly more organic botanical design. Its branching stems and clustered flowers offer a different visual character from the neat, drooping bells of lily of the valley.

For a May birth flower tattoo, hawthorn can create a fuller floral composition. For a birthday card, a flowering branch can symbolize hope and the arrival of another meaningful year.

Lily of the valley vs hawthorn: which May birth flower should you use?

Choose lily of the valley when you want the primary May birth flower or a design that communicates happiness, tenderness, and sweetness. Its distinctive white bells make it recognizable in fine-line tattoos, botanical drawings, and small engraved jewelry.

Choose hawthorn when you prefer a flowering branch, a woodland theme, or traditional symbolism connected with hope and spring renewal. Its clustered blossoms work well in larger illustrations and family bouquets.

For a minimalist tattoo, lily of the valley usually provides the simpler silhouette: one curved stem, several hanging bells, and one or two leaves. Hawthorn offers more opportunities for branching arrangements, clusters, and layered compositions.

For a May birth flower bouquet or family illustration, you can include both. Combining the two creates a contrast between lily of the valley's delicate bells and hawthorn's open, clustered blossoms.

If you are following the traditional primary flower for each birth month, lily of the valley is the straightforward choice. Our May birth flower necklaces feature a pre-designed lily of the valley engraving, not hawthorn.

Quick care and safety for May flowers

Lily of the valley and hawthorn have different growing habits, so it helps to identify the plant before choosing a garden or potted gift.

Lily of the valley: this woodland perennial generally grows well in partial shade and soil that retains some moisture while draining adequately. It spreads through underground rhizomes and may become aggressive in favorable conditions.
Flowering season: lily of the valley commonly flowers in spring. Blooms may appear earlier or later than May depending on the climate and growing conditions.
Hawthorn: many species prefer a sunny position and well-drained soil. Space requirements, mature size, and pruning needs depend on the particular tree or shrub.
Potted plants: check the botanical label, expected mature size, growing requirements, and suitability for the recipient's home before purchasing.

Important safety note: Lily of the valley (Convallaria majalis) is highly toxic if eaten by people or pets. All parts of the plant should be treated as poisonous, including its berries. Keep cut flowers, potted plants, and plant material out of reach of children and pets. Do not use lily of the valley as a food decoration or in anything intended for consumption.

For a household with curious cats, dogs, or young children, a botanical print, illustrated card, or engraved flower necklace is a more practical alternative to giving a living lily of the valley plant. If you are considering a potted lily of the valley gift, only choose it for a household where the plant can be kept securely away from children and animals.

Hawthorn also comes in many species and cultivars, so check the identification and any relevant household safety considerations rather than assuming every plant sold under the same common name is interchangeable.

History and fun facts

Several familiar names: lily of the valley is also called Our Lady's Tears, May lily, and May bells. These names reflect its appearance, flowering season, and cultural associations.
Not a true lily: despite its common name, lily of the valley belongs to the genus Convallaria, not the true lily genus Lilium.
Distinctive bells: the small flowers hang from a curved stalk, often appearing in a neat row above the plant's broad leaves.
A French May tradition: in France, May 1 is traditionally associated with giving small sprigs of muguet, the French name for lily of the valley. The custom is commonly linked with wishes for happiness or good luck, although practices vary.
Hawthorn and May: flowering hawthorn branches have appeared in historical spring celebrations and folklore in parts of Europe.
Woodland beginnings: lily of the valley is associated with shaded woodland environments in parts of its native range.
Two very different plants: lily of the valley is a low-growing perennial, while hawthorns are woody shrubs or trees. Their shared birth month is a symbolic tradition rather than a botanical relationship.

These details make May's flowers especially interesting for a birthday note. One flower offers delicate bells and a message of happiness; the other brings flowering branches and associations with hope.

May birth flower tattoo and design ideas

A May birth flower tattoo is a meaningful way to represent a May birthday, a child or grandchild, a relationship, or a personal milestone. Lily of the valley is especially suited to fine-line botanical artwork because its small bells and arching stem create an elegant vertical composition.

If you are searching for a May birth flower tattoo drawing, look closely at the real plant before choosing a design. Lily of the valley has small, downward-facing bell-shaped flowers, usually arranged along a curved flowering stalk. The broad leaves generally rise separately from the base. Keeping these features recognizable helps distinguish the flower from bluebells or other bell-shaped blooms.

Fine-line lily of the valley tattoo: use a single arching stem with several delicate bells and minimal shading. This works well on the inner forearm, upper arm, ankle, or along the collarbone.
Small May birth flower tattoo: choose a simplified stem with a few clearly separated bells rather than compressing an entire plant into a tiny design. Leave enough space for the flowers to remain distinguishable.
May birth flower tattoo with a name: place a child's, mother's, partner's, or grandchild's name alongside the stem. A short name in restrained lettering keeps the botanical shape central.
Lily of the valley with a birth date: add a May birthday below the flowers or alongside the lower stem. A vertical arrangement can combine the flower and date without making the design feel crowded.
May birth flower family bouquet tattoo: use lily of the valley for the May family member and combine it with the birth flowers of other children, grandchildren, or loved ones. Vary the heights and shapes for a balanced composition.
Lily of the valley and hawthorn tattoo: pair May's primary and secondary flowers. The lily of the valley bells contrast with hawthorn's open blossoms and branching stems.
Taurus or Gemini birth flower tattoo: add a small Taurus glyph for birthdays through May 20 or a Gemini glyph from May 21 onward. Keep the zodiac detail secondary to the flower.
Minimalist blackwork tattoo: use precise outlines, limited shading, and generous negative space. This approach emphasizes the hanging bells without requiring detailed color.
Watercolor lily of the valley tattoo: combine a botanical outline with soft green washes and restrained white or pale pink flower accents. A reference showing the actual plant will help preserve its identity.
Hawthorn branch tattoo: select a flowering branch with clustered blossoms and small leaves. This is a natural option for a shoulder, upper arm, or larger forearm piece.

Placement matters. A vertical lily of the valley design can follow the inner forearm or lower leg, while the shoulder and upper arm provide more room for a family bouquet. A wrist or ankle design may need fewer bells and less intricate detail.

When working with a tattoo artist, bring a clear botanical reference and discuss the final size. Extremely small bells, fine stems, and tightly spaced lettering can become less distinct as a tattoo ages. A slightly simplified composition may preserve the flower's recognizable shape better than an overly intricate miniature.

For a family birth flower tattoo, decide whether the arrangement represents each person's birth month or simply flowers with shared personal meaning. If it is a month-based design, identify each flower before finalizing the artwork.

Not ready for permanent ink? The same May birth flower drawing can become a framed illustration, a hand-drawn-style digital print, or a meaningful birthday card. A lily of the valley necklace offers another way to carry the May flower's symbolism without choosing a tattoo.

May birthday gift ideas built around the flower

A thoughtful May birth flower gift connects lily of the valley's traditional meaning of happiness with the person receiving it. The flower can be the starting point for a small, personal gesture rather than an elaborate presentation.

For a mother, grandmother, daughter, partner, or friend with a May birthday, consider choosing a keepsake that reflects both the month and the recipient's style. A simple explanation of the flower's meaning can make even a modest gift feel more considered.

May birth flower card message ideas

These original message suggestions can accompany a necklace, birthday card, botanical illustration, or wrapped gift.

Classic birthday note: "Your May birth flower is lily of the valley, a symbol of happiness, sweetness, and hope. It reminded me of the joy you bring into my life."
For Mom: "Like your May birth flower, you make the smallest moments feel special. I'm grateful for the happiness you've brought into my life."
For Grandma: "A little lily of the valley for your May birthday, and a reminder that our happiest memories always seem to include you."
For a new beginning: "Your birth flower is a reminder of happiness and hope. Here's to all the beautiful chapters still ahead."
Hawthorn-inspired note: "May's hawthorn blossoms are traditionally associated with hope. Wishing you a new year filled with moments worth remembering."

May birth flower necklaces

May birth flower heart necklace. Our May lily of the valley heart necklace features a pre-designed lily of the valley laser-engraved on 316L stainless steel. It is available in 18K gold PVD, 18K rose gold PVD, or polished stainless steel finishes and includes an 18-inch chain. The petite heart measures 0.63 x 0.55 in (16 x 14 mm). At $39 USD, it offers a sentimental choice for a May-born mom, daughter, grandmother, or partner.

May lily of the valley birth flower heart necklace in gold finish with engraved floral design — May lily of the valley heart necklace, $39 USD. Shop the heart necklace.

May birth flower bar necklace. Our May lily of the valley vertical bar necklace features the same pre-designed flower on a slim pendant measuring 1.26 x 0.20 in (32 x 5 mm). It is laser-engraved on 316L stainless steel, comes in the same three finishes, and includes an 18-inch chain. At $42 USD, its narrow silhouette suits someone who enjoys minimal jewelry and botanical details.

May lily of the valley birth flower vertical bar necklace with engraved floral design — May lily of the valley vertical bar necklace, $42 USD. Shop the bar necklace.

Both necklaces are pre-designed with lily of the valley and are not personalized with names or dates. Both are made from 316L stainless steel for everyday wear. Free US and Canada shipping is included, and orders ship within 2-5 days. Explore other months in our birth flower necklace collection. For material information and care, read whether stainless steel jewelry tarnishes.

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More May birth flower gift ideas

A framed botanical illustration: select a detailed lily of the valley print with its arching stems and bell-shaped flowers. Add a small note explaining the traditional symbolism.
A personalized birthday card: feature a drawing of lily of the valley on the front and a message about happiness inside.
A potted lily of the valley: consider this only for a suitable gardening recipient who can keep the highly toxic plant securely away from children and pets. For homes where that cannot be assured, choose a botanical illustration instead.
A hawthorn-themed illustration: a drawing of flowering branches offers an alternative for someone who prefers woodland or tree-inspired artwork.
A Mother's Day connection: if a May birthday falls near Mother's Day, give each occasion its own short note. For a mother born in May, a lily of the valley design can celebrate her birthday while the accompanying message expresses gratitude for her role in your life.
A family birth flower theme: use lily of the valley to represent a May child or grandchild, with additional flowers representing other family members. For jewelry inspiration, explore our grandma necklaces.
A zodiac pairing: match the May flower with Taurus gift inspiration for birthdays through May 20 or Gemini gift inspiration from May 21 onward.

Choosing a gift for your granddaughter? Our granddaughter gift guide includes birth flower necklaces for all 12 months.

Heart or bar: how to choose

Choose the heart necklace if you want the gift to feel affectionate, personal, and sentimental. The petite 16 x 14 mm heart suits the lily of the valley's traditional association with happiness and sweetness. At $39 USD, it is also the lower-priced option.

Choose the vertical bar necklace if she prefers minimal jewelry, clean lines, or a slender pendant shape. The 32 x 5 mm bar gives the floral engraving a taller presentation and offers a different look from a traditional heart pendant. It is $42 USD.

Both styles feature the same pre-designed May lily of the valley, laser engraving on 316L stainless steel, and an 18-inch chain. Both are available in 18K gold PVD, 18K rose gold PVD, and polished stainless steel finishes.

Neither design includes name or date personalization. The decision comes down to the shape she enjoys wearing, the finish that suits her existing jewelry, and whether you want a softer heart motif or a slimmer bar silhouette.

Frequently asked questions

What is May's birth flower?

May's primary birth flower is lily of the valley, traditionally associated with happiness, sweetness, and hope. Hawthorn is May's secondary birth flower and is often connected with hope and spring renewal.

Does May have two birth flowers?

Yes. May has two traditionally recognized birth flowers: lily of the valley and hawthorn. Lily of the valley is generally listed as the primary flower, while hawthorn is the secondary choice. Birth flower traditions can vary by source and culture.

What does lily of the valley symbolize?

Lily of the valley traditionally symbolizes happiness, sweetness, purity, and the return of joyful days. Its delicate white bells have also inspired associations with tenderness and humility in certain cultural traditions.

What is the May birth flower tattoo?

A May birth flower tattoo most commonly features lily of the valley, often drawn with a curved stem and small hanging bells. Hawthorn is another traditional May option. Either can be paired with a name, birth date, or other family birth flowers.

What does a lily of the valley tattoo mean?

A lily of the valley tattoo can represent happiness, hope, a May birthday, or a meaningful relationship. Some people choose it to symbolize a new chapter or a loved one who brings joy into their life. The most important meaning is the one the wearer gives it.

Is lily of the valley poisonous to pets?

Yes. Lily of the valley is highly toxic if eaten by cats, dogs, and people. Keep the plant, including its flowers, leaves, and berries, away from pets and children. A drawing or floral keepsake is an alternative for households where a living plant would create a risk.

Why is lily of the valley associated with May 1 in France?

In France, giving lily of the valley, known as muguet, on May 1 is a longstanding cultural tradition commonly associated with wishing someone happiness or good luck. It is a symbolic custom, not a guarantee of future events.

What is the May birthstone?

May's traditional birthstone is emerald, known for its distinctive green color.

What zodiac signs are in May?

May birthdays fall under Taurus through May 20 and Gemini from May 21 onward. For another birthday, use our zodiac sign finder to explore the corresponding sign and birth flower.

Can I personalize a May birth flower necklace with a name?

Our May lily of the valley heart and vertical bar necklaces feature pre-designed floral engravings. They are not personalized with names, dates, or custom messages. You can choose the pendant style and available finish.